http://goo.gl/MSJLI

這幾天相談

決定放棄了

因為女方說 那是她遇到的第一個可以心靈相同到另一個層次的人

因為女方說 她發現最近自己身體與心靈是可以分開的

因為女方說 牽手相比起sex他覺得牽手是更親密的關係行為

因為女方說 她已經受洗了希望未來的伴侶有著共同的信仰

距離拉開了,雖然心中還有一塊有點沉重,但是比較不會想那麼多

很取巧的方式,我的觀察很多西方宗教徒,其實不是很虔誠的信仰者

但是有著從小熟讀的聖經,那一個基本維持溝通點的東西

偶而有意無意的一句話,就讓人以為對方與我此時心靈相通

其實早已落入心理學的陷阱--同步化

或許01的卡不癲大說的對 http://goo.gl/8p6VY

'台灣人把婚姻、性愛、繁殖這三件事綁在一起，在以前來說，是合情合理，但現
在男女平等，大家都有謀生能力，再加上大家追求自我實現，所以這三件事已經
有愈來愈多人分得很開了。

所以請不說誰吃虧不吃虧這種問題，男歡女愛，妳情我願，緣盡情了，各奔東、
兩不相欠。尤其是在在通訊和網路的發達，偷情劈腿的成本非常低，拿我周遭和
自身的例子講給妳聽'


不過我很高興,至少我的眼光很好,讓我選到一個曾經的好對象,

否則也不會有一個更好的人看上她

這個更好的人,是我要努力成為的對象

Bio: Christopher Adams 18 May 2012

CHRISTOPHER ADAMS

Minister Counselor for Trade Affairs
United States Embassy Beijing

Christopher Adams joined the Office of the United States Trade Representative (USTR) in December 2006 as a Deputy Assistant U.S. Trade Representative and Senior Trade Representative for Beijing. In July 2007, he was assigned to the U.S. Embassy in Beijing as Minister Counselor for Trade Affairs. He is the USTR’s representative in China and an advisor to the Ambassador on trade policy.

Mr. Adams worked for the Eastman Kodak Company from 2001 to 2006 as Vice President, North Asia Region; Chief Representative for China; and Director, 2008 Olympic Programs. Mr. Adams was responsible for corporate marketing, communications, media relations, business development, and government affairs. He directed Kodak’s Olympic Games sponsorship and related marketing activities in the North Asia Region. Mr. Adams also oversaw Kodak’s 29 sales and marketing offices in China.

Mr. Adams served eight years as a diplomat in the U.S. Foreign Commercial Service with postings in Beijing and Taipei, from 1993 to 2001. As commercial attache at the United States Embassy in Beijing, he managed trade, market development, and technical assistance programs in the energy and environmental sectors, winning a commendation from Vice President Al Gore and the Department of Commerce’s second highest distinction, the Silver Medal. He also directed the reestablishment of the U.S. Trade and Development Agency’s operations in China.

Before joining the Foreign Commercial Service, Mr. Adams managed media relations and information programs as Assistant Information Officer with the American Institute in Taiwan and directed business advisory services at a private trade association in Washington, DC. Earlier, he was a journalist in the United States and Asia with the Los Angeles Times and Orange County Register.

Mr. Adams holds an MA from Stanford University, an MBA from Rutgers University, and a BA in economics and political science from the University of California. He is fluent and literate in Mandarin Chinese. Mr. Adams was elected to four consecutive terms as a Governor of the American Chamber of Commerce in China, from 2002 through 2005, and served actively on the Chamber’s Public Policy Development Committee.

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