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要如何讓自己敢去面對心儀的對象==>不管要不要追,都先當普通朋友
要如何讓自己在心儀的對象面前也能表現得很自然==>同上
要如何克服怕被拒絕的心理障礙==>多被拒絕幾次......或是想想,今天如果是你,也不會隨便接受女生的告白是吧?
要如何在對方有男友的情況下確保自己的優勢==>助教向來不建議追有男朋友的...無從答起

其實我也想過這些問題,就如同喵助教說的,應該用平常心去面對。除非兩個人一下子就對上眼了,不然要一下子就晉升到男女朋友的等級是有難度的,而且我覺得很多女生會保護自己,如果你一下子表現的太過極積,有兩個壞處。第一她會有戒心,可能反而會刻意和你保持距離,第二她會吃定你,對你有意思那還好,若對你沒意思又吃定你,下場我就不用多說了。
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