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其實，一個貼心的男人...就算是一位好男人（當然這也是壞男人必修課程） 但太過貼心，而忘了你的「目的」  .........就會退化變成好人....  箇中滋味...難以言喻...不如沐大舉個例子吧  至於，因瞭解而說不出口...則是你的得失心太重...你太害怕失去...（導致黑暗原力的誘惑）..  ....，其實，如果你知道，她就是你要的...那你就要做個決定，裹足不前是不會進步的，除非你想跟她作知己一輩子..  所以，你可以把故事說一下，比方說：有多瞭解她、怎麼認識的、熟到什麼程度、認識多久.....這樣，比較好建議 我在專科時，幫過不少同學攻略....除了幾個馬步沒學好就要去打西斯大帝的提前陣亡外...一般都有些進展喔....
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2005-05-23, 03:54 PM
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恩恩,就是這個意思 其實這意思就是,你要能成為一個能給予建議的聆聽者 讓對方覺得你很可靠,可以依附你. 用第三人的立場,不要把自己也攪進去,盡量避免情緒性字眼 用很客觀的態度去分析,建議,相信在女孩子心目中是會加分的. 如果常常使用情緒性的字眼去附和對方,對方容易把你當成好朋友,一鼻孔出氣. 有點類似...麻吉,我挺你!!那種感覺
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2005-05-23, 03:58 PM
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補習班開太晚，現在已經沒了。  我只是覺得有時候我會太黏人，把人嚇跑
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-05-23, 04:00 PM
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我很會聆聽，但卻拙於言辭。除了一鼻子出氣，也沒什麼好建議給人，原來我失敗不是沒有原因的
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-05-23, 04:03 PM
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沒關係~現在知道也來的及阿~ 話說我男朋友大我足足9歲,他29歲才第一次戀愛(我是第3個) 之前他常常跟我開玩笑說,他拿的是好人白金卡 他也是從不斷的挫敗去改變自己,到現在這樣 我常常問他,到底是哪些轉變(我之前有叫他乾脆上來po篇文章  )他說的內容大約就跟我提及的差不多, 總之得失心不要太重, 到32歲遇到我這種的也還不錯阿  不慘就是了...總之追的時候不要追太緊,黏太兇,不僅女生會怕, 相對在你被拒絕的時候,你也會更傷心, 因為你的情緒已經是在"熱戀"狀態, 問題是說...追都沒追到呢... 所以在追求的過程中自己心態也要調整,不要一下踩太深
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2005-05-23, 04:10 PM
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中華兒女千千萬
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2005-05-23, 04:15 PM
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是阿~何況現在很多異國戀情呢 不過我還是覺得同樣生長環境的比較好,觀念溝通上比較輕鬆
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2005-05-23, 04:16 PM
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形容的真好，簡直像親眼目賭一樣 而且重點是追都沒追到喔。  文章千古事 風流沐紅衣 花落欲護泥 卻隨馬蹄飛
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2005-05-23, 04:18 PM
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不想上報，也不想上吊
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-05-23, 04:20 PM
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恩....Bryan_C大碰上好女人了....真是讓人好生羨慕阿...  想要得到些什麼,勢必就得犧牲調一些東西,或多或少而已, 能這樣同時享受自由又能有共同的嗜好甚至是互相分享彼此的樂趣, 能有這樣的情感交流,夫復何求? 欣羨之於,回過頭來想想自己是不是有做到能跟這樣的條件相配的上? 讓另一半放心,有安全感? 試著找出兩人共有的興趣,不斷的培養? 對於彼此的缺點除了習慣之外,能不能一起成長改變? 可能我這些都沒有做的很好,才會因為發現兩個人在心理層面上實在無法再更進一步深入 還有成長,選擇了放棄....或許我也曾碰過像Bryan_C大所遇上那樣的好女人,不過可能 在碰上瓶頸時沒給彼此機會,錯過了.... 除了羨慕之外,對自己也有幾分懊悔 |
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2005-05-23, 04:22 PM
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