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所以你的意思是根本不用橫刀奪愛,又或許根本橫刀也奪不了愛,只要做個好人默默的守在旁邊等待機會,是你的就是你的,不是你的怎麼求也求不得,怎麼感覺有點宿命論? 
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-06-30, 01:11 PM
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*停權中*
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時也！運也！命也！ 但是命是可以改的，看你如何去改而已！ 默默的守著，只是讓對方知道她有個備胎而已，萬一都沒有破輪的機會，備胎永遠沒出場的機會，多跟對方出去玩！ 製造一些讓對方窩心的事，讓對方注意到你的存在，等到哪一天你突然不找她時，她反而會想找你，那就成功一半了  |
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2005-06-30, 01:21 PM
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沐紅大
送你這首歌吧................. 沒那麼愛他 范瑋琪 詞/曲:徐婕兒 你有權利情緒化 你不一定要堅強 但有些事情 不能偽裝 別為自己設了框 我懂失去的悲傷 也懂進退的掙扎 但想起過去 都是失望 又何必要放不下 是習慣還是愛 不放心 還是不甘心 只有你自己知道解答 其實你沒有那麼愛他 真的不需要那麼想他 編織過的夢想 自已也可以抵達 誰說一定要有他 其實你沒有那麼愛他 沒有深陷到不可自拔 認清了真心話 你就放得下 深呼吸 抬頭望 發現天空很寬廣 這世界那麼大 幸福總會在某個地方 其實你沒有那麼愛他 真的不需要那麼想他 擁有過的計劃 留給值得的對象 你知道 不會是他 其實你沒有那麼愛他 沒有深陷到不可自拔 認清了真心話 你就放得下 |
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2005-06-30, 01:26 PM
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不是宿命論，而是按兵不動 喜歡一個人，並不代表就要立刻告白，立刻成為男女朋友﹐宣告擁有權 而只要她不是單身，就馬上放棄，這不能稱為喜歡 能確定幾個月後的將來，或是幾年後的將來，情況還是會一樣嗎﹖ 在這段期間，你仍然自由發展，物色可能的對象，只是同時在心裡留給她一個位置 將來，大家都說不定的 而且，不要做老好人，巴在別人身邊，也不必默默等待 說真的，不利己的事多做無益 除非你打算埋伏在人家身邊隨時橫刀奪愛，那又另外一種做法
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2005-06-30, 01:31 PM
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我承認我有點死心眼,一顆心無法同時容納兩個感情.... 將來誰也不知道,我只想把握現在... 我不是想立刻宣告擁有權, 可我是離不開,連假裝也不會... 或許我是笨吧...
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-06-30, 01:38 PM
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我不鼓勵當人家的第三者
我只鼓勵你去把她搶過來 看了這麼多女孩子 條件不錯的 早就被人家交走了 難道就一定要挑別人剩下來的嗎 所以如果你自認為自己可以接受挑戰 就要先認清自己的定位 前面有說過 備胎就備胎 有什麼不可以~ 美女我朋友 跟男友拍拖十幾二十年 今年被甩 年紀已至40 另外一個美女同事也是交往十多年 照樣跟男友吵架分手 誰說感情久就一定會好呢... 你只要扮演好你的角色 守在她身邊 讓她不會有壓力 又會時時想到你 這樣才能伺機而動 這不是要你做笨好人 要再三強調 笨好人到哪裡都是笨好人 真壞人是會裝假好人的... 所以才會有擺闊,接送的行徑出現... 那都是算計 而不是好人好事 大家都當過兵 當兵就是裝給上面看... 所以就裝嘛 如果裝可以追到 那位何不裝呢 |
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2005-06-30, 01:43 PM
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你只是很專情而已 但是容易受傷 這樣也會女方很難做 這樣下去的話，我可以想象到女生會因為你如此無法克制自己而躲避不見
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2005-06-30, 01:44 PM
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好了各位同學請繼續上課....別討論我的事了,待會兒老a又要來對我下封口令了
 死老a最近很混喔,都沒來上課... 
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-06-30, 01:45 PM
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忍不住要回... 大大你真的說中我了... 上次就是這樣,結果她跑了...玩失蹤...唉.... 我很怕這樣,所以我到現在都在忍....這次看我能不能忍過去吧.... 
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mahā-kāruṇika-citta-dhāraṇī namo ratna-trayāya / nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya bodhisattvāya mahāsattvāya mahākāruṇikāya / oṃ sarva-bhayeṣu trāṇatasya / namaḥ kṛta imam āryāvalokiteśvaraṃ dhāvanam anārakini hṛt / mahā pāṭhāsya me sarva-artha-duḥ-śubhaṃ ajeyaṃ sarva-sādhanāḥ mahā-sādhana mahā-gharma-bhā-dhāto tadyathā oṃ avaro he loka te kāra te / ye hṛd-mahā bodhisattvaḥ / saha saha māra- mārā / mahe mahe arthayān kuru kuru / kāmān dhuru dhuru bhājayate mahā bhājayate / dhara dhara dhṛti-īśvarāya / cala cala mama bha māram utsāiḥ / ehy ehi śīnāś śīnā arasān varāḥ śālīḥ / bhāsa bhāsān vara śayāḥ / hulo hulo mārā hulo hulo hṛt / sāra sāra siri siri suru suru / bodhyā bodhyābodhaya bodhaya amiteryāḥ / nārakini dhṛṣṇunā pāya mānāḥ svāhā / siddhāya svāhā / mahā-siddhāya svāhā / siddha-yogeśvarāya svāhā / anārakini svāhā / amāranāra svāhā / śīla- sam-amoghāya svāhā / saha mahā- asiddhāya svāhā ca kīla -asiddhāya svāhā/ padam akṣitāya svāhā / nārakini pa-gharāya svāhā / mahārṣaṃ karāya svāhā/ namo ratna-trayāya nama āryāvalokiteśvarāya svāhā / oṃ sidhyantu mantra-padāya svāhā / |
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2005-06-30, 01:47 PM
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是我，我也會跑 你當然能夠熬過去，忍忍吧 好了，別講了 其實，壞男人的第一步不是要假裝"不在乎"嗎﹖
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2005-06-30, 01:55 PM
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