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樓主遇到的算小咖....
我現在是分手了.... 只是我捨不得這段感情又去找她.... 但她給我的反應讓我覺得我努力在多都是多餘的.... 有時我會想該放的還是要放比較好... 做在多只是更讓人看不起，更讓人覺得煩.... 捨不得這段感情卻被人說成拖拖拉啦....這更痛吧... |
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2008-04-30, 04:57 AM
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大大是女孩子嗎??  這就是好人最明顯的特點...  已經愛上了自己卻不肯承認... 想當年我也在學校圖書館認識一名女孩... 當初也是每到晚上都送她回到家門口.... 當時也不斷告訴自己別自作多情,我們不過是好朋友... 其實心裡也明白自己很喜歡對方...但是卻會覺得這麼好的女孩應該是有男友了... 還是做朋友吧.... 
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 I have done this thing because it is just. Blood demands blood. We have lived and lost, at the whims of our masters for too long. I would not have it so. I would not see the passing of a brother, for the purpose of sport. I would not see another heart ripped from chest, or breath forfeit for no cause. I know not all of you wish this, yet it is done. It is done... Your lives are your own. Forge your own path, or join with us. And together, we shall see Rome tremble! |
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2008-04-30, 05:11 AM
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其實我也不知道該怎樣回答你，因為我也遇到同樣的問題。離開錯了嗎？我只能說是錯也是對，錯的是，並非只有那樣絕的結果。對的是，拉開距離對彼此都好。
只是端看樓主站再怎樣的位置。 最後，共勉之。
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我們這小組，跟那些喊著「敗啊」，「敗啊」，彼此慫恿的敗家之人不同!! 當我們心中想著「敗」這個字的時候，事實上已經把錢敗光了!! |
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2008-04-30, 05:13 AM
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以個人經驗來看...要以朋友的立場跟喜歡的女孩在一起是很困難的...
經驗是告訴我斷要斷得乾淨...不然若持續跟她做朋友,你每天看著她跟她的男友親密的在一起感覺會更痛苦...(當然要視你對那女孩投入多少情感而定...) 不過若那女孩住在你家附近或因同班天天都會見面,你也只有認了,盡量調整自己的心態跟他維持友好關係... 若是否定,建議你下定決心後便疏遠她... 個人發生不久前的經驗談... 
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I have done this thing because it is just. Blood demands blood. We have lived and lost, at the whims of our masters for too long. I would not have it so. I would not see the passing of a brother, for the purpose of sport. I would not see another heart ripped from chest, or breath forfeit for no cause. I know not all of you wish this, yet it is done. It is done... Your lives are your own. Forge your own path, or join with us. And together, we shall see Rome tremble! |
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2008-04-30, 05:26 AM
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想先強調我可沒覺得她利用我阿 可真冤望  但她搞曖昧我覺得有阿 我們是一群朋友都滿要好的 有陣子她ㄧ直很關心我 手機簡訊頻傳，即時通聊到半夜的 才會讓我誤會阿 至於載下山的問題 不管載男載女順路我當然OK阿 但被發卡後 心情難免低落吧 看到當事人會更難過 我想也是難免的吧 難道其他人就不會嗎!? 我是覺得我選擇暫時逃避她的話 她也應該尊重我的選擇 謝謝妳的批評喔 我也會當作參考  |
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2008-04-30, 05:45 AM
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哀~你說的很對....... 她騙我說沒要去找她男友 過幾天看到無名親密的相片 真的會七校  那種心痛真的會讓人睡不著 可以讓人麻痺個幾天 我也想斷乾淨 可是她卻好像很不能接受 看來連朋友都當不成 很正常 |
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2008-04-30, 05:52 AM
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其實不用說太多啦.
就慢慢保持距離就好. 有時候一個過度的表現, 會成為嬌情. |
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2008-04-30, 05:56 AM
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錯!!大錯特錯!!!
 當不了情人,還可以當炮友阿!!!.... |
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2008-04-30, 06:00 AM
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人家一定會覺得 不給你幹就做不成朋友....真現實
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2008-04-30, 07:04 AM
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如果對方是這麼想表示心智還不是很成熟... 當然如果板大有這方面的疑慮不如把心裡的感覺與為何疏遠她的原因直接跟她說個明白... 好女孩都會明白的...
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I have done this thing because it is just. Blood demands blood. We have lived and lost, at the whims of our masters for too long. I would not have it so. I would not see the passing of a brother, for the purpose of sport. I would not see another heart ripped from chest, or breath forfeit for no cause. I know not all of you wish this, yet it is done. It is done... Your lives are your own. Forge your own path, or join with us. And together, we shall see Rome tremble! |
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2008-04-30, 07:11 AM
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