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罵這個動作基本上是所謂的破壞, 破壞後一定要接著重建,
如果只有破壞而沒有重建, 那這個孩子的確會變得一無是處
這時候, 除了看開點還是只能看開點,
父母總是愛用激將法來刺激, 比方說: 你以為xxx 這麼簡單啊...
有一次我老媽又用這種口氣跟我說, 我火了就罵了回去:你除了唱衰我你還會什麼? 你有提出什麼具體建議跟分析嗎? 就算有你也是在台灣的環境, 這裡不是台灣!
只見她愣了一下就縮回去了...
其實不只來自家長, 周圍環境甚至兄弟姊妹之間的互動也是會有影響, 但是父母的影響要大得多, 但是如果父母不在, 這些影響甚至大於父母的不當管教
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Rule #12: Never date a co-worker.
Rule #13: Never involve lawyers.
Rule #23: Never mess with a Marine's coffee if you want to live!
Rule #51: Sometimes you are wrong
純白の吸血鬼は微笑む：私を殺した責任、とってもらうからわ - アルクエイド ブリュンスッド
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Was aus Liebe gethan wird, geschieht immer Jenseits von Gut und Böse - Friedrick Wilhelm Nietzsche
Cain was the first man ever to strike down another... and when the Lord came to him and said ‘What have you done!?’, Cain could not hide his crime. For the voice of his brother’s blood cried out from the very ground
The world has been your battlefield, everywhere you go. The blood of brothers and sons screams out against you. Perhaps you cannot yet hear it, because the soil is not your own, but you will... you will
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