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最好有這樣講!
我爸說過男人只有一種情況下可以哭就是家裡死人!
我記得我爺爺走時!我一路趕回花蓮!一路上都沒情緒!
但是一見到他就馬上就哭!那種哭的感覺很奇怪!大概生平第一次見到親人過世!
又是那麼親的一個!不過我看我的伯伯級的很少有那種真的哭出來!
多半都是一直掉眼淚!然後就躲起來哭!或是守靈時靜靜掉淚!
不過通常親友在靠腰這種事!多半都是有點嘲笑意味!
也許你那位堂哥有什麼故事吧!然後那個親友覺得在裝可憐!
不然這樣講很不道德!我還記得我那時哭到跪下來!真的會像我這樣哭出來!
是因為我爺爺和我真的很親!其他的堂兄弟最多就掉掉淚!
那種感覺很不一樣吧!
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When the Nazis came for the communists, I remained silent; I was not a communist.
When they locked up the social democrats, I remained silent; I was not a social democrat.
When they came for the trade unionists, I did not speak out; I was not a trade unionist.
When they came for the Jews, I remained silent; I was not a Jew.
When they came for me, there was no one left to speak out.
Martin Niemöller (1892-1984)
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