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有幾種狀況吧
1. 女方因為某些因素(宗教 家庭等),要守著最後一道防線
2. 男方太色女方會怕
3. 女方想藉著這一點看男方是否會尊重女方


從以上哪一點看
我都覺得女方跟樓主不適合


1.那是宗教信仰但不應該是拿處女來說,應該說對方接不接受她的宗教,又或者她的宗教有排他性,所以要讓對方了解的是宗教教義,不是了解她是處女,如果女方真的以處女來說,我覺得是本末倒置...
2.男方太色,還想和他交往,就不應該要怕,太矛盾了
3.那是女方自己對感情的看法太幼稚了,處女誠可貴,愛情價更高,若為結婚故,溝通最重要
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舊 2005-05-25, 10:57 AM #10
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