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樓主找個時間和樓主未婚妻好好討論一下吧,畢竟這事關係到你們倆將來的幸福。
如果可以這個保人肯定是做不得的,以樓主描述的情況看來,根本是樓主未婚妻的媽媽在幫她兒子留後路。現在就已經有20幾萬的卡債了,將來怎麼可能有錢還房貸,如果這個保人真的做下去,這筆帳算到樓主頭上,依我看是八九不離十了。等於是樓主還沒付聘金,就先幫樓主未婚妻的哥哥買了一棟房子了,這麼好的交易,樓主未婚妻的父母怎麼會放過樓主你。所以這真的是個無底洞,人心是填不滿的,樓主夫婦倆真的要認真思考一下應對之策,以免身陷泥沼之中。
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舊 2005-04-14, 11:37 AM #57
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