其實好和壞不是絕對的, 而是相對的.
相似的情形, 我也發生過, 只是她的男朋友是我學長, 他也只是去當兵而已.
當你覺悟的時候才會發現到, 一個願打, 一個願挨. 在真心付出的時候無論什麼都不嫌煩, 當你受夠的時候任何事情都不能忍受.
所謂的壞男人, 只是比較隨心所欲, 不一定是不在意, 玩玩...等.

When you really understand that it won't happen, you can leave the burden behind and go on with your life. Be yourself. Changing yourself to please others might make you happy. However, it is not you. Sooner or later you will want to break out and shout, and then will you be free.