我可以體會樓上媽媽的想法..

你媽很中肯。你還是快點砍掉重練吧 :D

不會啊! 有些女生比男生還勤奮! (至少我周遭是)

而且.....男生.....也有很多是垃圾! (至少黑社會..男的比較多)

妳爸會不會是在亂講的? 很多台灣父母喜歡講些口是心非的話. 尤其移民後閒著沒事做, 實在太無聊了, 常常會不自覺地沒事找事, 吹毛求疵.

如果妳爸是認真的, 那只能說他心智還不夠成熟. 沒錯台灣是有很多人年紀雖不小了也權高位重, 但想法行為其實是很幼稚. 看看新聞就知道這種老頑童還真不少.

無論如何妳最好跟妳爸溝通一下, 如果妳把心裡的不滿吐出來, 畢竟是家人, 妳爸就算表面上嘴硬心裡還是應該會有所醒悟.

最後建議妳最好不要再提top 40 or 50之類的事. 如果真要炫耀應該說Ivy league, 或直接講校名系名, 但最好還是不要自己講啦. 自己包括父母家人.

First of all, I don't know why you assume people are discriminating you because of your accent. It has nothing to do with race. Anyone can laugh anyone because of their accent. I laugh at my friends accent all the time because it's just plain funny and it has nothing to do with the color of your skin.

As for your dad, I am not sure what motives he had when he sent you oversea but I am sure it's not an easy decision to make from a father's point of view. If he doesn't value you then why does he bother sending you oversea to get a western education to begin with? I might be wrong but I am guessing your dad paid your way until university.

I agree with you that some Taiwanese guys' attitude towards gender equality is really backward and outdated. However, if you want to distinguish youself from the traditional Taiwanese gender value, then I don't see the point of complainting about your dad. You're on your own after high school, he has done his duty as a father (financially that is).

還是隨便找個人嫁出去(那還真對不起對方了...) -------這個好笑 :ase

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